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Becoming One is a community-powered platform for couples and individuals to get coaching, courses, and practical tools to communicate better, calm conflict, and build a relationship that lasts.

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Learn skills, practice with your partner, and stay supported—without piecing together 10 different apps.

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Film‑Level Teaching for Real Relationships

Concise, story-driven lessons—from conflict de-escalation and rekindling desire to money talks and parenting on one team.

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Weekly Coaching & Q&A

Bring your situation. Get coached live, learn from others, and leave with one clear next step.

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Assessments, Scripts & Challenges

STARVED connection check, Get REAL conversation guides, monthly couple challenges, and more to make change stick.

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A Community That Helps You Win

Private members’ space to ask questions, get feedback, and stay motivated. It’s support, not judgment—and it keeps you moving.

  • Members-only forum & Ask‑a‑Coach threads
  • Live calls you can rewatch anytime
  • Monthly challenges & accountability
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What’s included

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    Live weekly group coaching
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    On‑demand courses & tool library
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    Private community access
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    Member‑only events & workshops

Real couples. Real results.

Stories from members who used these tools to reconnect, communicate, and rebuild.

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“We were stuck in the same fight for years. Two weeks with the Get REAL script and it finally clicked.”

— A & K, married 11 years
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“The weekly calls keep us steady. Disagreements don’t spiral—we know how to slow down and listen.”

— R & M
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“Warm, human, practical. We leave every session with one tool that actually works.”

— J & T
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“It felt like a reset for our marriage. We finally share the same map.”

— S & D

Podcast & Clips

Short, punchy insights and longer conversations that move your relationship forward.

Ready to feel in sync again?

Join Becoming One and get the tools, coaching, and community to create a stronger, calmer, more connected relationship—without guesswork.

  • Immediate access to courses & replays
  • Weekly live coaching with Matt
  • Private community + Ask‑a‑Coach
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Questions, answered

How is this different from therapy?+

We focus on skills, habits, and forward motion. Many members also see a therapist; the combo works great. Coaching is practical and momentum-based.

What if my partner isn’t on board yet?+

Come alone and start the change. Most relationships shift when one person learns new tools and models calm connection.

Can we try it before we commit?+

Yes—grab the free mini‑class above to get a feel for the teaching style and tools.

Do you offer 1:1 or couples coaching?+

Yes. Members get preferred access and special pricing. Book a short consult to see if it’s a fit.

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Matt Townsend

Coaching, courses, and community for stronger relationships.

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