Can Your Marriage Be Improved Questionnaire

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1. Discuss your most pressing marital issues. 2. Review your patterns and other data that come from the “Can Our Marriage Be Improved” questionnaire. 3. Overview the Marriage Matters coaching approach 4. Review programs that target your specific marital issue s and outline costs for each program. 5. Time for Q&A.
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Find out where your marriage stands in relation to the "Top 5 Predictors of Marital Distress"
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Step 1
Completely fill out the Healthy Relationship Assessment and submit it to our coaching staff for assessment.

1. I sometimes nag at my partner in order to get back at him/her.
  
2. It is very easy for me to get angry at my partner.
  
3. My partner does not try very hard to understand me.
  
4. When my partner does something that makes me angry, I usually let him/her know about it.
  
5. I often push my partner to talk about issues even when it is clear that my partner doesn’t want to talk.
  
6. I feel good after getting angry.
  
7. If I had my choice I would avoid conflicts and disagreements.
  
8. When my partner brings up a relationship issue, I tend to withdraw, become silent or refuse to discuss the matter further.
  
9. I often find myself saying, “I don’t care” or “Whatever you want is fine with me” when I am asked for my opinion.
  
10. I often agree with my partner’s wishes just to end the discussions.
  
11. Sometimes I don’t talk to my partner because I’ve noticed that talking leads to fighting.
  
12. I often sit and stare at my partner, not saying anything.
  
13. During problem discussions, my stomach often feels as if it is all tied up in knots.
  
14. I often feel a lump in my throat when I argue with my partner.
  
15. My body often becomes tense during a discussion about a relationship problem.
  
16. My heart often speeds up or races during our conversations.
  
17. I often feel very anxious at the start of problem discussions.
  
18. I would describe myself as very emotionally charged or tense whenever there is a major disagreement.
  
19. I am basically unhappy with my relationship.
  
20. I have often felt like leaving my partner.
  
21. I often don’t feel close to my partner.
  
22. We hardly ever do any fun things together.
  
23. I am not sure I really love my partner anymore.
  
24. I am not satisfied with our sex life.
  
25. I often do not feel supported by my partner.
  
26. At the beginning of most conversations about typical relationship problems, I believe that we will not be able to get close to a satisfying resolution.
  
27. I have little confidence in being able to discuss a significant relationship problem with my partner without fighting.
  
28. In five out of ten disagreements with my partner, I will be unable to make any headway in reaching a happy solution.
  

Step 2
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